[View the story "Out but not equal" on Storify ]Out but not equal DOMA leaves gay military spouses without benefits. Storified by The Stream · Mon, Jan 14 2013 10:32:52
Randy Phillips, an airman from the United States Air Force, came out to his dad online the night "Don't Ask Don't Tell" (DADT) was repealed. Randy's video went viral, with more than six million views on YouTube.
Telling my dad that I am gay-LIVEAreYouSuprised
DADT was an important milestone in gay rights, but there are other issues to be confronted. The picture below is from
Freedom to Marry , an organisation devoted to providing marriage equality in all states.
In an interview with Freedom to Marry, Navy Senior Chief Dwayne Beebe and his fiance, Jonathan Franqui, shared their expectations for military families in 2013.
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The Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) hinders same-sex couples - even in cases where they were legally married - from obtaining the benefits that heterosexual couples receive. The chart below is from
Freedom To Marry .
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US Army Reserves Captain Steve Hill and Joshua Snyder talk about the difficulties they faced because of DADT and the how DOMA is affecting them to this day.
Booed Soldier and Husband Boo the Defense of Marriage Actfreedomtomarry
Army National Guard Chief Charlie Morgan and her wife, Karen, have been together for 15 years. Morgan has been re-diagnosed with stage-four breast cancer. If she were to die, her wife would not be granted the same survivour benefits provided to heterosexual couples.
Cancer-Stricken Soldier Fights for Her Life and Her Family's Equalityfreedomtomarry
The video below describes the relationship of Michael Holtz, United States Army Reserve Captain, and his partner, Stephen Utley.
Living OutLindsay Crisler
Massachusetts Army National Guard Major Shannon McLaughlin and her wife Casey are
filing a suit in the Federal District Court of Boston to have the same health benefits as opposite-sex married couples.
McLaughlin's possible deployment overseas would also complicate their twins' access to medical care.
On Twitter, netizens expressed their opinions on DOMA.
The effects of #DADT will never truly be over until we also repeal #DOMA. http://www.hrc.org/blog/entry/obstacles-remain-for-military-widow-post-dadt (via @HRC) #LGBTQ #equality #militaryAnn Marie
Sign & RT! Tell House Republicans to stop using tax dollars to protect that nasty Defense of Marriage Act --> http://dems.me/StopDOMA #DOMAGrrl paints comics!
DOMA denies #LGBT couples over 1,100 federal rights and benefits #repealDOMA http://www.hrc.org/campaigns/defense-of-marriage-actDon Martin
Support The Military and its struggle towards TRUE Equality for ALL Soldiers, Airmen, Seamen, Marines and Guardsmen. #LGBT #p2b #DOMA #EDNAA Aryeh Perez
If people stood up for equal rights as much as they are standing up for gun rights... #repealdoma #DOMA #lgbt #equalrightsDaner Banning
Marriage should be limited to one man, several women. Just like in the Bible. #DOMA #LGBT #MarriageT-Fox
Not surprisingly, where the people have led on #LGBT equality, our leaders have followed - http://abcn.ws/V2OkKI. via @shushwalshe #DOMAIan Thompson
States have differing positions on making same-sex marriage legal, as can be viewed in this
interactive graph from the LA Times.
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Gay marriage was made illegal in California after a voter-approved ban, Proposition 8, was issued in 2008.
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After the ban many protested against Proposition 8 and DOMA, demanding equal rights for same-sex couples.
Protesting Against DOMA - San Diego, Jan'09judeck77
A popular website that tracks the legal developments concerning Proposition 8 in California has been relaunched under the name
Equality on Trial .
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The video below emphasises that, whether gay or straight, soldiers make the same sacrifices to their country.
What makes a gay soldier different from a straight soldier?FreedomToMarry
Through Edith Windsor's
case , the Supreme Court will evaluate the constitutionality of the Defense of Marriage Act in March 2013.